The Analyser - Maldivian Ladies
Sunday, May 07, 2006
Tuesday, May 02, 2006
The way Maldivian Ladies dress - shame !!
It�s not constructive to blame anyone else for these acts by many of our women. It doesn�t serve any purpose to pint our fingers at television or anyone else. Everyone is accountable to his or her own actions and behaviour. We cannot simply say "this woman did not wear modest clothes so why do we have to?" Or "Some one said that, it is not compulsory that we dress modestly so why bother?" For me these are just signs of ignorance.
We are not living in Stone Age. Some call this "the era of technology and mass communication". Why cannot one read and find those information and data we need to discipline ourselves? If we say we are Muslims than why do we just stop there and not find "Islamic tharbiyyath"? We are not short of religious scholars in this country to clarify any doubts one may have regarding Islamic way of life. I�m so glad that the Ulama in this country are so reachable with the press of a button, provided one has the interest to do so. So, search and look for information. Ignorance is not an excuse! We have the Internet, we have all sorts of communication abilities and why cannot we make good use of these things to seek knowledge?
Why can�t the parents see their children dressed so immodestly? Why do parents dress their children in such ways while the children are young? Isn�t it the responsibility of the parents to encourage their children to dress modestly, instead of cladding the children in tight and revealing clothes even while they are babies? Children are an amaanath from Allah. Then why cannot we take care of those amaanath and give the tharbiyyath we owe to them?
It is not true that every Maldivian girl or woman goes around the streets, dressed immodestly. However, this is the trend among many of our women, especially the up and coming generation. There are very respectable women in this country who follow modesty when it comes to wearing clothes.
Some blame the tourism industry for exposing our women to such immodest ways of dressing, while others blame the Western countries where many of our younger generation get their higher education. It is not fair to generalise like this. Even in the time of jahilliyath, there had been modest Muslims. They respected their religion and way of life. To be able to live with people of any faith at the same time respecting to one�s own belief is a great strength. If we need to copy from others and learn, try to learn and act on those things that do not contradict with our beliefs and ways of life. We have to have self-control and the ability to control our urge against anything that can spoil the reputation of our religion, culture and modest way of life. This is a responsibility every Maldivian should shoulder - men and women alike!
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Saturday, February 11, 2006
Maldivian society approves "Oriyaan haalathugai magumatheega"
A young girl in a mini-skirt says to a friend, 'Wouldn't it be great if we could wear skirts like the English Prep school girls!'
She is only worried about one thing - not being able to have her school uniform above her knees.
'It was incredibly hard for her to bend over because of her mini-skirt.' |
She wants uniforms as short as evening dresses, fashioned in a way that everyone will notice.
A girl gets off the Viligili ferry and walks towards the Indira Gandhi Memorial Hospital. Because of her short dress, most of her thighs are exposed.
'... the material was so transparent that you could make out the curves of her body.' |
After a while, when she walked up to a group of young boys she began to pull down parts of her dress, stretching it. She tries very hard to lengthen the dress.
Why the hesitation to be in front of others in a mini-skirt, if you choose to wear it?
If instead she wore a dress more suitable for the Maldivian environment, discreet and considered appropriate by Maldivian society, then she would not have to pull at the hem of her dress to feel covered.
A tall girl is in one of the stalls of the Society for Education. Her dress was about a handspan above her knees.
Due to a collision with a child in the stall a paper file in her hand fell to the floor.
It was incredibly hard for her to bend over because of her mini-skirt.
She slowly pushed it behind a desk with her foot and at last picked up the file.
Many people ridiculed her about it and the next evening she wore a shalwar-kameez.
Dressing appropriately for the place and occasion makes you feel comfortable and avoids embarrassment.
A young girl who was watching a weekend show was complaining there were too many men staring at her.
She didn't think about the reason. She was wearing a dress that was shorter than Maldivians usually wear, and the material was so transparent that you could make out the curves of her body.
It is very important to dress in a discreet way to avoid ridicule and suggestive glances from others.
Maldivian society approves of such discretion.